Monday, September 22, 2008
Losing Control
We have run into a little bit of a problem with Mason the past couple weeks, the problem being we are running out of ways to contain the child. Mason is rapidly developing the skills he needs to get through anything that is meant to stop him from reaching a certain destination. It all began about a month ago when he had a little growth spurt that allowed him to reach door handles. It didn't take him long to learn how to work several different kinds of door knobs including the one on my parents front door and our storm doors. This is great for him because all he really cares about is getting outside to play (where he would live if I allowed it). Basic door knobs are still a barrier, although he turns them, he just doesn't turn them far enough.....yet. Then a few days ago Mason wanted to play in the backyard while I was cooking dinner. Our backyard is completely enclosed with only a waist-high swinging gate that leads to our front yard. I often will let Mason play back there and leave our sliding door open so I can watch him while I cook dinner. This particular day he went in the backyard and immediately pushed his lawn mower to the gait and begged "peeeeess" (please pronouced like peas) for me to open the gait. I told him he had to stay in the backyard. He started whining and pulling on the gate when he reached up and very intentionally pushed open the latch and pulled the gait open all with very little difficulty. I hurried and stopped him and closed the gate again hoping he didn't realize how he'd done it. But he knew. He went right over to the latch and opened it like he had always known how to do it. So much for letting him play in the backyard. The final broken barrier was the most important of all. Yesterday morning at 5:30am while I was still at work, Scott woke to a very loud thump. He ran into Mason room to find him lying on the floor (not crying, just half asleep). He had climbed/fallen out of his crib. I am not quite sure what to do about this. Mason isn't even 17 months old and, in my opinion, is way too young for a toddler bed. But is it too dangerous for me to keep him in his crib if he keeps climbing out? I know that many parents are faced with this so please help!!! How old was your child when you put him/her in a toddler bed? If he could climb out before then how did you stop them? How can I protect Mason from getting hurt (like hitting his head on the dresser or something)? I love watching Mason grow up and watch his curiosity of the world around him. These developments might make my job a little harder, at times, but I don't care at all. I love watching him get excited when he figures things out. Being a mom is truely the light in my life. Now I just need to figure out how to keep my little buddy safe.
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Rachel, I totally feel for you. We just recently went through with this and I begged everyone to give me the answers. Makayla started climbing out of her crib at 16 months and we put her in a toddler bed then. I too thought she was too young. We just put a safety rail on it and she is doing just fine. It took some getting used to but she sleep fine now.
Good luck!
Mason is such a quick learner! We didn't have any of those problems until Halle was two. We could probably wait until Jackson is 5 before putting him in a toddler bed :) Let me know how things go!
Jaden is in a twin bed with a safety rail. He decided about three weeks ago (he's 18 months now) that he would NOT sleep in his crib anymore. It's been a transition... and a rough one, but he's doing much better and is sleeping in his own bed now. Good luck!
Mason sure is growing up fast. Lyndee was 22 months when she started climbing(falling) out of her crib. Since we have wood floors and a dresser near her crib, we feared for her safety. We put her in a toddler bed for awhile, but now she is much happier in a twin bed with rails. We did have to put a child lock on the doorknob so she would stay in her room during naptime. Hope you find something that works well for Mason.
Hi Rachel. I'm glad you left a comment on my blog :) Mason is SO stinkin cute!! It's been fun to see/read what you and Scott have been up to.
And by the way...I love your haircut...so cute!
Rach- Dang, I can't believe he is only 17 mon and climbed out of his crib! he must be a strong little guy! What a cutie!
Wow Rach - Mason and Payton sound like they could really get along and teach each other a move or two. At about 20 months Payton started out on a twin matress on the floor - after a few weeks of not rolling off, we put it on the bed box wih a safety rails. He has never fallen out - at my Mom's he sleeps in a crib, kinda... he climbs out. No worries, after a fall or two, Mason like Payton will learn how to slowly lower himself to the ground (:
Katelyn jumped out of the crib during nap time when she was 17 months. Luckily it scared her enough that she didn't keep trying to do that. But I bet that won't deter Mason. As for the toddler bed. I am surprised that Katelyn has done so well with it, and wasn't nearly as difficult as I thought the transition is would be. Good Luck!
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